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Karen Pierce Gonzalez … Women Writers over 50

Women Writers over 50

Fifty Odd is featuring women writers over 50 each week for 50 weeks. Each guest answers questions about her writing subjects, her writing inspiration, her purpose for writing, and her current books and upcoming writing projects.

Author Karen Pierce Gonzalez is featured this week.

Karen Pierce Gonzalez … Women Writers over 50

Author Karen Pierce Gonzales Women Writers over 50

Author Karen Pierce Gonzalez
Women Writers over 50

Karen is an award winning fiction and nonfiction writer. Her writing credits include nomination for the Pushcart Prize and awards from Farmhouse Magazine National League of American Pen Women, California Writers Association, and others.

She has been a journalist and freelance contributor for The San Francisco Chronicle, Marin Independent Journal, Australian Trade Community Journal, and Press Democrat  as well as other magazines and newspapers. Her fiction has appeared in numerous publications, including Farmhouse Magazine, Sonoma Style, Sonoma Mandala, and Zahir Tales.

She earned her Bachelor of Arts degrees in Creative Writing and Anthropological Linguistics/Folklore from Sonoma State University in California. Her memberships include the Western States Folklore Society and is a columnist for Big Blend Magazine.

Links to Karen Pierce Gonzalez’s books and author page:

Black Pepper Visions: Original Folktales & Stories You Can Eat

Family Folktales: Write Your Own Family Stories – workbook

Family Folktales: What Are Yours?

FolkHeart Press Blog:

Karen Pierce Gonzalez Public Relations Blog

Karen Pierce Gonzalez … Women Writers over 50

When did you decide you wanted to be a writer?

I have been writing since I was 8-years-old and found the process both creative and comforting.

What or who inspired you to write?

My mother was an avid reader who shared her appreciation of books with me. As a very young teen I was inspired by the BEAT poets and writers and occasional school teachers who recognized that I had talent.

What do you hope to accomplish with your writing? (i.e….save the world, make people laugh, share knowledge, make a living, etc.)

I want my fiction to explore possibilities and flush out choices and potential consequences. In writing I seek out the humanity of characters and their situations, hoping to reveal them (to myself as well as others) with compassion rather than judgment.

I want my non-fiction (workbooks, journalism, blogs) to celebrate the folklore (customs, traditions, beliefs) of our lives and to introduce people to how others around the world express their versions of folklore. 

What is your favorite part…(paragraph…page…line) from one of your books?

” At times I must blink to drive away the moisture that appears in my eyes. It is a sign, I am told, of growing old. In the opening and closing of my eyelids, I sometimes forget what I was thinking. And, standing here, waiting for the children to finish their lessons, this can be good. Back then I thought I would never forget the way my throat closed, not letting a sound escape. His efforts to comfort me were lost, too. Hearing that I and my fruits would be greatly missed did not touch me with the tenderness he had hoped. They could not erase the pain of my tightened face.

Sometimes, like today, I remember more than I want to. I can see again the way the sun ran its warm fingers through his dark hair as he bent down to pick up the fruit that had fallen from the tray. This is the best fruit and the children here are very lucky to have you,” he had said.”

From Isalene/Black Pepper Visions

What have you learned from writing?

Two important lessons I have learned:

  • Writing is a process and I need to be willing to let go of ‘control’ while a piece is being formed. This allows me find the heartbeat and rhythm that, in the end, will dictate the structure (story/essay, etc.)
  • Creating stories and writing news articles allows me to focus intently on the depths of a particular topic and at the same time provides a common bridge between me and others.

What are you working on now…or what is your next writing project?

I have just finished editing LOVE Lotions, Potions & Lore, a Kindle e-book sampler (20 authors/artists around the world). All proceeds benefit the National Center for Family Literacy.

I am also working on a collection of short stories.

Thank you to Karen Pierce Gonzalez for letting us learn more about her. Please follow the links and check out her works.

More Today than Yesterday

 Now they understand.

 Now both my surviving children, my son and my daughter, understand how much I love them.

 They knew, as well as a child can know, that  I loved them. But they didn’t fully understand it until they experienced it for themselves.

 My son has understood for a while now. He has two children of his own, a little son and daughter of his own to love. He knows. He understands.

 I saw it in his eyes when I saw him hold his babies. I saw that understanding in him again today when he held their little hands while walking down the hospital corridor on the way to visit their aunt and new baby cousin.

 I saw the understanding in my daughter’s face yesterday while she held her own little daughter for the first time. She loved that baby girl before she was born, and she loved her even more yesterday after she was born.

 Today she loved her more than yesterday. She didn’t know that was possible.

 Tomorrow she will love her even more. And the next day, and the next.

 I knew my daughter understood that this morning when she looked at me over the tiny, wrapped- tighter-than-a-burrito bundle she was holding

After just 24 hours in this world this little girl has a mother who would readily do anything to insure her safety and well-being. My daughter has acquired the impulse that would make parents step in front of a train, that would make them catch a grenade, that would make them do anything for their child. That impulse will grow stronger every day.

 You can never understand exactly how much your own mother loves you until you have your own child. You can guess how much she does, you can even “know in your heart”, but you can’t understand until you feel it for yourself.

 I didn’t understand it until I had children of my own. The birth and growth of each of my own three children helped me understand just how much my own mother loved me and my brother and sisters.

 I feel confident that my other son understands it too. Knowing God’s love for us has to be like knowing your mother’s love. It’s one and the same thing.

 It’s a love that surpasses all understanding.

 I love you more today than yesterday, but a little less than tomorrow.