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Judith Barrow … Women Writers over 50

Women Writers over 50

Fifty Odd is featuring women writers over 50 each week for 50 weeks. Each guest answers questions about her writing subjects, her writing inspiration, her purpose for writing, and her current books and upcoming writing projects.

English author, Judith Barrow, is featured this week.

Judith Barrow … Women Writers over 50

Author Judith Barrow Women Writers over 50

Author Judith Barrow
Women Writers over 50

Judith Barrow is originally from Saddleworth, a group of villages at the foot of the Pennines in North West England. She moved to Pembrokeshire in Wales in 1978 with her husband, David and their three children, where she is a creative writing tutor.

She has completed three children’s books and two adult novels published. Her third book is due to be published in May 2013.She has a MA in Creative Writing, a BA (Hons) in Literature and a Diploma in Drama. She has had short stories, plays, reviews and articles, published throughout the British Isles and has won several poetry competitions.

Pattern of Shadows was published by Honno in 2010

Pattern of Shadows

Pattern of Shadows

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Silent Trauma

Silent Trauma

 

 

Silent Trauma, published December 2012.

 

http://www.judithbarrow.co.uk/

Judith Barrow … Women Writers over 50

I always knew that I wanted to be ‘a proper writer’, someone who had books out there for people to read. But that didn’t happen until I was in my forties, had beaten breast cancer, and gained a degree in Literature and a Masters in Creative Writing.

I’ve been a compulsive reader for as long as I can remember. As a child, every Saturday morning I went to the local village library with my mother and carried home a stack of books that didn’t always last the week. Books were both my passion and an escape. They also became an inspiration for the writing I did in secret. I hadn’t the confidence to show anyone what I was doing; the short stories, plays and poems stayed firmly hidden. And, later again, like many women, work, getting married and bringing up a family was a priority for a lot of years.

Judith Barrow…

Women Writers over 50…

Her Books

My latest book, my first eBook, is Silent Trauma. Silent Trauma is the result of years of research, and the need to tell the story in a way that readers will engage with the truth behind the drug Stilboestrol. So I had the idea of intertwining this main theme around and through the lives of four fictional characters, four women, all affected throughout their lives by the damage the drug has done to them. Their stories underpin all the harm the drug has done to so many women all over the world. The story is fictional, the facts are real.

Pattern of Shadows was inspired by my research into Glen Mill, a disused cotton mill in Oldham, Lancashire, and its history of being the first German POW camp in the country.

I was researching for an earlier book in the Local Studies and Archives in Oldham, while staying in the area, but reading about the mill brought back a personal memory of my childhood and I was sidetracked.

My mother was a winder in a cotton mill and, well before the days of Health and Safety, I would go to wait for her to finish work on my way home from school.

I remember the muffled boom and then the sudden clatter of so many different machines as I stepped through the small door, the sound of women singing and shouting above the noise, the colours of the cotton and cloth – so bright and intricate.

Above all I remember the smell: of oil, grease – and in the storage area. the lovely smell of the new material stored in bales.

When I thought about Glen Mill I wondered what life would have been like for all those men imprisoned there. I realised how different their days must have been from my memories of a mill and I knew I wanted to write about that.

So started 18 months of research…

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Please go to Judith Barrow’s website to learn more about her. I think you will find that she is a fascinating woman. She is one more of the great women writers over 50!

Death and Taxes … Baby Boomers Life after 50

Death and Taxes

by Peggy Browning

Death and Taxes

Death and Taxes

There are only  two things that are guaranteed to each of us in this life: death and taxes. Every one of us will die, but before we do…we will pay taxes.

Today is the day we pay up: April 15, 2013. Unless, like me, you are a lazy lug and you had to file an extension.

Death and Taxes

I’ve been giving a lot of consideration to the inevitable death and taxes lately.  I read the obituaries every single day. I’ve done that since I was a little kid. And just about every day, I pay some kind of tax. Both are on my mind a lot.

I have a lot of thoughts on the subject of death, but I’ll save those for another time. I’ll just share my thoughts on taxes today. Death and taxes are too heavy for just one blog post.

While I was thinking about taxes today, I pulled out my federal tax return from 2010. It was the only one I could find…so I’ll work from it.

Here’s what I found:

In 2010 I had an adjusted gross income of a little over 40 thousand dollars. That was from working two jobs…a full-time job teaching in a public school and a part-time job working as an usher at an entertainment venue. My taxable income was just a bit over 30 thousand dollars.

I paid $4,295.00 in federal income taxes. In addition to the taxes I sent to the IRS,  I also paid $2,150.00 in school, county, and city taxes…property taxes. I don’t know how much I paid in sales tax, except that here in Texas the sales tax is 8.25 % of any taxable purchase. And, believe me…just about everything I bought except for most grocery items, is taxable.  I bought a new car in 2010 for approximately $20,000.00. I’ll let you figure the sales tax on that.

So, anyway, I was thinking about what I received for my taxes of approximately $6,500.00, excluding all sales tax.

Here’s what I got for my money:

  • A free, appropriate public education for my grandchildren. (In fact…I also received a FAPE…and so did my children).
  • A working public sewer system.
  • A source of water, piped directly to my home.
  • 24/7 Police protection.
  • A judicial system that works most of the time.
  • 24/7 Fire department protection.
  • Paved streets in my mid-sized city.
  • Paved alleys in my mid-sized city.
  • State parks, federal parks, and city parks.
  • A public venue for concerts and sporting events.
  • A city councilperson to represent my district.
  • A state representative, a state senator, two U.S. senators, and a U.S. representative.
  • An infrastructure that supports transportation, electricity, other sources of energy, and fiber-optics for internet service.
  • Interstate, intrastate, and farm-to-market highways.
  • The FDA to ensure safe medications and treatments, the CDC to research communicable diseases, FEMA and the National Guard to help me in time of disaster.
  • A public transportation system in my hometown.
  • Access to mental health treatment.
  • Access to public health treatment.
  • A tornado warning system.
  • FCC regulated television and radio stations.
  • FAA regulated air travel.
  • NOAA weather information.
  • Round the clock protection by the military serving in the U.S. and all other foreign assignments.
  • The FBI, the CIA, etc.

And those are just a few of the perks of paying my taxes.

Here’s some other perks that make me feel good about paying taxes:

  • The young single mother who works with my daughter received food stamps and Medicaid. She also received subsidized child-care and subsidized housing. Her children were well-fed, had medical care when they needed it, had safe child-care, and a suitable home.
  • The frail, low-income pensioner received nursing home care through Medicaid.
  • The state universities received federal subsidies to provide post-high school education for my neighbor’s children.
  • Research hospitals and universities received federal grants for researching ideas from cures and treatments for cancer to better agricultural methods.
  • Millions of unemployed people received unemployment benefits that helped save them from total desperation when they lost their jobs…on which, by the way…they pay a 10% federal income tax.
  • Dairy farmers received a federal subsidy so that the price of a gallon of milk is still affordable.

That’s just a few of the things for which my taxes pay. Federal, state, county, city, and school taxes…all used to keep our lives and all the perks to which we are accustomed going well.

The two inevitable facts of life are death and taxes. We are assured of both. We can like it or we can lump it. No one looks forward to either of these inevitable forces of life.

Whatever…we will always have death and taxes.

 

MK Turner … Women Writers over 50

 Women Writers over 50 … MK Turner

Fifty Odd is featuring women writers over 50 each week for 50 weeks. Each guest answers questions about her writing subjects, her writing inspiration, her purpose for writing, and her current books and upcoming writing projects.

Author MK Turner is the featured guest this week.

Women Writers over 50 … MK Turner

Author MK Turner Women Writers over 50

Author MK Turner
Women Writers over 50

A short biography of MK Turner.

I spent almost twenty years working for a large corporate property agency, at a senior level.  When I left that behind I began writing.  I published my first novel, Misplaced Loyalty, in September 2012, and my second, Murderous Mishaps, in January 2013 just before my 52nd birthday. Both are murder mysteries, but Misplaced Loyalty looks at the serious subject of euthanasia. Murderous Mishaps, however, is as the title suggests a more lighthearted take on murder (I know it doesn’t sound quite right does it?). I never intended publishing, but now I have, I’m running fast to catch up with all the things I should have done, and those I should be doing. I’m married with two children and live in Bristol, England.

When did you decide you wanted to be a writer?

I have always enjoyed writing, but didn’t write my first full length novel until I was fifty.  I suppose the decision to publish came when those that had read the first part of Misplaced Loyalty began chasing me for the next installment. I was quite thrown by the fact that not only were they happy to read more, they were actually demanding it.

What or who inspired you to write?

Having left a job which seemed to require my attention, twenty four, seven, (one of the pitfalls of smart phones and the internet), I suddenly had a lot of time on my hands. I realised there was only so much cooking, gardening, and cleaning I could do without going totally mad. A friend made a passing comment to the effect that people wouldn’t believe it if it was written down, and I decided to scoop up all the gossip and scandal, tweak it and exaggerate it, and Murderous Mishaps was born. Originally it had a working title of “whodunitchiclitfarcicalthing” It’s still saved on my laptop under that name.

What do you hope to accomplish with your writing?

I will be a very happy bunny if I can earn a few pounds, and provide a little entertainment, during which readers can escape the norm.

What is your favorite part…(paragraph…page…line) from one of your books?

I don’t really have a favorite part as such, it’s the characters themselves I get attached to.

In Murderous Mishaps the detective is attempting to ascertain who was where in the hotel when the murder was committed. During this process several people confess to the murder. This is his final scene in that chapter.

“Right. So that’s now four of you involved.” Barlow looked up at the ceiling and chewed his lip attempting to calm himself. He sighed. “Well, we’ll deal with this in the interview room, unless of course anyone else wants to throw their hat in?” He looked around and was relieved, and just a little surprised, that they all remained still.  “Good let’s get on with it then.”  With this he turned and marched briskly from the room.

Barlow needed to collect his thoughts. Solve this one? The way this was going he would be telling his Superintendent that it was Spartacus in the toilet with a wine bottle.”

What have you learned from writing?

More than any other job I have had in the past, I find that writing is all consuming. Even when I’m not writing, editing, or promoting, I’m thinking about it. Whether it’s the next twist in the plot, or a possible character for the future that I bumped into at the supermarket checkout, it seems impossible to switch off.

What are you working on now…or what is your next writing project?

I have just sent the second in the Meredith & Hodge series, Ill Conceived, off to the editor. I’m torn between starting work on the third, as I have the basic storyline, or doing something totally different. I might try both and see which one pulls me in.

Links to MK Turner’s books, author page, and blog.

Author page: http://www.facebook.com/pages/M-K-Turner

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarciaKimTurner

 

Murderous Mishaps

Misplaced Loyalty

Ill Conceived

 

 

 

Mary Ann Bernal … Women Writers over 50

Women Writers over 50…Mary Ann Bernal

by Author Mary Ann Bernal

by Author Mary Ann Bernal

Fifty Odd is featuring women writers over 50 each week for 50 weeks. Each guest answers questions about her writing subjects, her writing inspiration, her purpose for writing, and her current books and upcoming writing projects.

Author Mary Ann Bernal is the featured guest this week.

Author Mary Ann Bernal Women Writers over 50

Author Mary Ann Bernal
Women Writers over 50

Thank you for having me, Peggy.

About the Author

Mary Ann Bernal, author of The Briton and the Dane novels, is an avid history buff whose area of interest focuses on Ninth Century Anglo-Saxon Britain during the Viking Age.  While pursuing a degree in business administration, she managed to fit creative writing classes and workshops into her busy schedule to learn the craft, but it would take decades before her “Erik the Viking” novel was ultimately published.

Mary Ann is also a passionate supporter of the United States military, having been involved with letter writing campaigns and other support programs since Operation Desert Storm.  She has appeared on The Morning Blend television show hosted by KMTV, the CBS television affiliate in Omaha, and was interviewed by the Omaha World-Herald for her volunteer work.  She has also been a featured author on Triangle Variety Radio, The Phil Naessens Show, and The Writers Showcase, and has been interviewed extensively by American and European bloggers.

Mary Ann is a New York “expat,” and currently resides in Omaha, Nebraska.

Women Writers over 50 … Mary Ann Bernal

When did you decide you wanted to be a writer?

Since grade school, after having impressed my teacher with one of my rhythmic poems

What or who inspired you to write?

The Hollywood Blockbusters of my youth was the inspiration behind my dream to write my Erik the Viking novel.

What do you hope to accomplish with your writing?

One of the themes running through The Briton and the Dane series is the plight of the warrior and his family.  My stories shed light on the effect a warrior’s “career” has on the family, and the sacrifices made by loved ones.  My subtle inferences are seen in today’s society, with our deployed men and women serving their county and preserving our freedom.  Thank a service person and/or veteran for their service.  Freedom is not free.

Excerpt from The Briton and the Dane:  Concordia

This excerpt is from chapter one.  The reader is introduced to Brantson, a gallant warrior serving in King Alfred’s army.  Brantson is the perfect embodiment of honor, truth and justice, in a violent world.

” Brantson walked amongst the wounded as his able-bodied men made the necessary preparations to bury the dead.  He spoke with every man, assessing their wounds while providing comfort, but his demeanor was somber as he silently counted the number of warriors he had lost.  Brantson gestured to the stableboy who hurried towards him, and he smiled slightly when the lad removed his hat and bowed.

“How are you called?”

“Alden, my lord.”

“Alden, I would have you bring the wounded men to the holy brothers at the abbey, but return quickly for the dead.”

“We will need more wagons,” Alden replied while pointing at the heathen bodies.

“Nay, we will alight a funeral fire as is their custom…I would not deny them their beliefs.”

“As you wish,” Alden mumbled before taking his leave.

“The boy seemed surprised by your honorable treatment of the enemy,” the first officer said quietly as he approached his commander.

“It is only fitting,” Brantson murmured as he gazed upon the lifeless bodies.  “But you already know my thoughts in this regard, so why are you troubled?” ”

What have you learned from writing?

One’s writing improves the more one writes.

What are you working on now…or what is your next writing project?

My next project is The Briton and the Dane: Timeline  — since I’m not ready to leave the Anglo-Saxon Britain.

Following is a synopsis of Mary Ann’s Latest release, The Briton and the Dane: Concordia: 

Travel back in time to late Ninth Century Anglo-Saxon Britain where Alfred the Great rules with a benevolent hand while the Danish King rules peacefully within the boundaries of the Danelaw. Trade flourishes, and scholars from throughout the civilized world flock to Britannia’s shores to study at the King’s Court School at Winchester.

Enter Concordia, a beautiful noble woman whose family is favored by the king. Vain, willful, and admired, but ambitious and cunning, Concordia is not willing to accept her fate. She is betrothed to the valiant warrior, Brantson, but sees herself as far too young to lay in the bedchamber of an older suitor. She wants to see the wonders of the world, embracing everything in it; preferably, but dangerously, at the side of Thayer, the exotic Saracen who charms King Alfred’s court and ignites her yearning passions.

Concordia manipulates her besotted husband into taking her to Rome, but her ship is captured by bloodthirsty pirates, and the seafarers protecting her are ruthlessly slain to a man. As she awaits her fate in the Moorish captain’s bed, by sheer chance, she discovers that salvation is at hand in the gilded court of a Saracen nobleman.

While awaiting rescue, Concordia finds herself at the center of intrigue, plots, blackmail, betrayal and the vain desires of two egotistical brothers, each willing to die for her favor. Using only feminine cunning, Concordia must defend her honor while plotting her escape as she awaits deliverance, somewhere inside steamy, unconquered Muslim Hispania.

Links:

http://www.maryannbernal.com

facebook.com/TheBritonandtheDane

http://twitter.com/#!/BritonandDane

http://maryannbernal.blogspot.com/

http://www.linkedin.com/pub/mary-ann-bernal/33/5b/a9a

http://pinterest.com/maryannbernal/

https://www.youtube.com/user/maryannbernal/videos

The Briton and the Dane Concordia – Book Trailer:

http://youtu.be/yDPaiQqmaIs

The Briton and the Dane Concordia — Purchase Information

US   http://www.amazon.com/The-Briton-Dane-Mary-Bernal/dp/148188994X/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1358684323&sr=8-&keywords=The+Briton+and+the+Dane+Concordia

UK    http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Briton-Dane-Mary-Bernal/dp/148188994X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1358684038&sr=8-1

 

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 Thank you to all the women writers over 50 who are participating in the Fifty Odd blog tour.

Greta Burroughs … Women Writers over 50

Women Writers Over 50

by Peggy Browning

Fifty Odd is featuring women writers over 50 each week for 50 weeks. This week, we are pleased to feature Greta Burroughs.

Author Greta Burroughs …Women Writers over 50

Author Greta Burroughs

Author Greta Burroughs

Greta Burroughs loves to read. No matter where she is, there is always a book close at hand. Her love of reading began at an early age and blossomed over time to include many different genres, her favorite now being fantasy.

As a preschool and elementary school teacher, Greta tried to instill the joy of reading in the children she worked with. Books were an important part of her classroom and story time was the highlight of the day.

It has been a while since Greta was in a classroom but she had lots of experience in reading to children of various ages and remembers what they enjoyed listening to. She tries to incorporate that knowledge into her work as an author and believes it makes her a better writer of children’s and young adult books.

She now resides in South Carolina with her husband, Robert and two dogs. Greta has six books published at the present time; three children’s books in the Patchwork Dog and Calico Cat series, two MG/YA fantasy entitled “Gerald and the Wee People” and “House on Bo-Kay Lane”, and a nonfiction account of her experiences with an autoimmune blood disorder called ITP - “Heartaches and Miracles

 

Women Writers Over 50 … Greta Burroughs

When did you decide you wanted to be a writer?

In 2005, I was diagnosed with a chronic blood disorder (ITP) and could no longer work at a “normal” job. I had to find a means of working out of my home. Fortunately, I obtained a job as a freelance newspaper reporter. It was something new and exciting and I really enjoyed researching information and talking with people for my articles.

At that point, I got the writing bug and began working on my first book, “Gerald and the Wee People” in my spare time. It took several years to complete the book but it was worth it. The encouragement I received from my friends and family led to my digging out some children’s stories written years earlier, refurbishing them, and getting them into print. I was hooked and have been writing ever since.

What or who inspired you to write?

My husband, Robert DeBurgh, was and still is my inspiration. He had quite a bit of success with his first novel and coached me with my newspaper articles and later on with my manuscripts. He gave me the confidence I needed to begin this new phase in my life. If it were not for him, I would have never become a writer.

What do you hope to accomplish with your writing?

I would love to be able to make a living from my writing but that is a wish that has not been fulfilled …yet.

In “Heartaches and Miracles”, my major goal is to inform readers about ITP. This autoimmune blood disorder strikes its victims without rhyme or reason, to young and old alike. The problem is – no one knows anything about it. When a person is diagnosed with ITP, it is bewildering and takes a while to understand what is going on inside his/her body and why. That is why I wrote about my experiences – to help others understand and know that there is hope for remission.

My children’s books are mainly for teaching and entertainment. In the Patchwork Dog and Calico Cat series, I try to give children a fun way to learn about caring, sharing and the value of good friends.  It seems to work, parents have told me their children talk about some of the silly situations the two characters get into and why they (the children) would not do such a thing.

The young adult books are for entertainment but I try to give a few life lessons as well. I cannot help it; I used to be a teacher. Once a teacher, always a teacher!

What is your favorite part… (paragraph…page…line) from one of your books?

I do not know why I love this excerpt from “Gerald and the Wee People” so much. Maybe because it was so much fun to write:

“This time it was no illusion. The walls burned their hands; the hot air burned their throats. The floor was sticky with some kind of hot substance that burned their feet through their shoes. They began to hear a distant sound like the laughter they had heard earlier.

Cian fell to his knees and cried out in pain as the scalding liquid burned his skin. “I can’t go on, just leave me here to die,” he screamed.

Tomas reached out to his brother and tried to help him up. It was no use. He was too weak and exhausted. In a very weak voice he said, “You all go on. I’ll stay with Cian. I can’t go another step anyway.”

No one else said a word, the other two boys were too tired to talk, too tired to walk, too tired to care.

This was not supposed to be happening. Gerald did not remember this from his nightmares. Something was wrong. He yelled to whoever was listening, “Did we take a wrong turn or something? Stop it, Miach, stop it. You want me, leave my friends alone.”

That just made matters worse. The scampering, unseen creatures came out of nowhere. They did not just run past this time but stayed and started pinching and biting the legs and arms of Gerald’s companions. For some strange reason though, the creatures did not bother him.

All four of his companions were down, rolling around on the ground trying to fight off the shadowy figures. The screams intensified from his friends as the burning liquid covered their bodies and the creatures’ biting turned to gnawing. Gerald could hear pieces of flesh being torn away as the other boys were being eaten alive. The laughter was all around them now bouncing off the walls and echoing through Gerald’s head.

“Stop it, stop it now. Please, I’ll do anything you want, Miach, just stop the noise, and stop torturing my friends.”

Total silence fell. All the gnawing, screaming and laughter were gone. Gerald did not know if the total lack of sound was worse than all the noise. He noticed a light shining above him. He looked around and realized he was all alone.

A voice spoke inside his mind and said, “Anything I want, huh,” followed by a soft, haunting chuckle.”

What have you learned from writing?

My writing has improved. When I looked at the children’s stories I had written years ago, I was shocked at how bad they were grammar/tense/punctuation wise. I still am not great, but better. My writing has taught me to express myself more clearly both verbally and on paper.

What are you working on now…or what is your next writing project?

Our 18 year old dog, Spike, passed away a few weeks ago and I am writing a children’s story based on his life. He was a very intelligent dog. We always joked about him being an alien sent to spy on us. In the story, Spike will be an alien and will expose his observations of the human race.

 Read more about Greta Burroughs …

and Buy Her Books!

Women Writers over 50 … Links to Greta Burroughs

Greta’s Website 

Greta’s FaceBook Author page 

Greta’s Books

Gerald and the Wee People  on AmazonOn Barnes & Noble: Barnes & Noble

On Smashwords: Smashwords

House on Bo-Kay Lane

Smashwords

Amazon

Barnes & Noble

Heartaches and Miracles

 

US Amazon

Barnes & Noble

Smashwords

Patchwork Dog and Calico Cat

 Amazon

Smashwords

Barnes & Noble

 

Middle-Aged Mean Girls … Boomers Life After 50

Middle-Aged Mean Girls

by Peggy Browning

"There's a special place in hell for women who do not help other women"...Former Secretary of State, Madeline Allbright

“There’s a special place in hell for women who do not help other women”…Former Secretary of State, Madeline Allbright

Middle-aged Mean Girls…could there possibly be anything worse than this? I mean, really, it’s bad enough when mean girls are tweens and teens, but to have to put up with middle-aged mean girls is a special kind of torture that most of us would give anything to avoid.

Middle-aged mean girls are commonly called something else…a word that starts with “b”. And in the case of some old mean girls, it’s spelled with a capital B.

The Mean Girls weapon of choice...a knife in the back.

The Mean Girls weapon of choice…a knife in the back.

I would call them heifers, but I like heifers. Middle-aged mean girls are more like old hens who will swiftly peck a vulnerable chicken to death and then walk over the dead chicken until she is smashed flatter than a flitter. Or sometimes a group of old hens will slowly pull the feathers from another hen until she is naked and exposed and then she gives up and dies.

Either way, it’s a cruel death. And it’s a method at which middle-aged mean girls are particularly adept. Pick, pick, pick. Peck, peck, peck. Finally the hen being pecked on dies…or in the case of women, quits her job because she is dying a slow death.

Mean girls gossip, spread rumors, make shit up, and spread it all over the barnyard or office, whatever it may be. They post on Facebook, they slander co-workers, they talk in the break room until the one being gossiped about comes in to get a cup of coffee or to make a copy. They finally hush…until the gossippee walks out again. And the shit starts to fly again.

Oh, those mean old hens. Oh, those hateful old capital Bs.

I am thinking in particular of a dear friend who has a terrible job situation. She’s currently in a heartbreaking mess . But is she being supported by her co-workers…those women who work beside her each day…those women whose support would be greatly appreciated by her right now?

Oh, hell no. She’s being gossiped about and raked over the coals. Her integrity is being questioned. Her good name and reputation is being besmirched by people who called themselves her “friends” until she really needed a friend. Now that she needs some encouraging words from them, they are busy posting on social media, texting other co-workers, and generally talking smack about her.

I’m disappointed in these women, but I’m not surprised. It’s a common occurence in the work place, as well as in most other organizations where women are in attendance. I hate those capital Bs.

With friends like these middle-aged mean girls, who in the world needs enemies?

I’d like to tell my friend that things won’t always be like this, that she will go to another job where everyone is nice and appreciates her good work and her helpful attitude.  However the fact is that there’s always a group of mean girls, small or large, no matter where you go.

Women don’t have to behave this way. We should pull together, help each other, encourage each other, educate and instruct each other by sharing our hard won wisdom.

Wouldn’t it be better if we grew up to be nice, kind women rather than just growing older and becoming middle-aged mean girls?

I think so…but I seem to be in the minority.

(Clip art from www.hasslefreeclipart.com.)

 

Margaret Arvanitis … Women Writers Over 50

Women Writers Over 50

by Peggy Browning

Fifty Odd is featuring women writers over 50 each week for 50 weeks. Each guest answers questions about her writing subjects, her writing inspiration, her purpose for writing, and her current books and upcoming writing projects.

This week’s featured guest is author Margaret Arvanitis.

 Margaret Arvanitis

  

Women Writers Over 50 :

Margaret Arvanitis

Ms. Arvanitis was born in the Midwest, raised on a farm, married and had five children. As a girl, she dreamed of being a girl reporter, instead she became a writer. She now resides on the coast in Oregon. She has a degree in Early  Childhood Education. She taught preschool and early elementary for over thirty years until her retirement. She now spends her time writing elementary mid-grade fantasies and Teen novels. Her short stories have been published in Skipping Stones Magazine, Totline Teaching Tales  (Warren Publishing Co.)

These are the books published as e-books on Amazon.com and Smashwords. Print books can be found on Amazon.com.

 

THE LEGEND OF ELPANDA PAWS;

The Claus Corporation contracted with the ELVanites to make Love Bears which are delivered to seriously ill children around the world. Only Elves with love and happiness in their hearts can make the bears properly. When the elf workers become afflicted with the Negative Disease, the Love Bears may not be made in time. Something is wrong in ELVanland. Something is terribly wrong!

 

 

 

FORBIDDEN WINGS, A MERMAID’S STORY

When Nadeea meets her fairy friends, Cassandra and Alex, and sees their beautiful wings, she longs for wings too. But Mermaids do not fly. Sir Cecil, the  Snerg, promises to help her find wings, but they must take a long dangerous journey to the home of the Damselflies who might know where Nadeea can get wings. She meets selkies, Finfolk, Squarettes, sea-trows and hill-trows, and other creatures; but will they discourage or help a mer child find her way to gaining wings and save her family from the slave caves?

 

Women Writers Over 50

All books including print books can be found at my Amazon.com Author’s Page.

Authors Pages:

Amazon http://www.amazon.com/M.-C.-Arvanitis/e/B007UJWLC4/

 

Smashwords: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/MCArvanitisWriter

 My blog link where I’ve filed every short stories and books I’ve written including free short stories with activities other caregivers and teachers may print off and use is: http://mcarvanitiswriter.blogspot.com 

When did you decide you wanted to be a writer?

I became interested in writing when in high school and had to research and write articles. I’ve diddled around with poetry but soon found myself writing short stories

What or who inspired you to write?

Children. When I read stories to them I saw the wonder in their eyes and wanted to be one of those fabulous writers who could bring such delight to children. I started writing seriously when I opened my preschool and needed to add puppet dialogues, songs, and short stories to enrich my curriculum. Later I took characters from some of these stories and brought them into the mid-grade books I call Fables. I can’t call them fairy tales, but they are fantasy-based adventures. I also write history based upperteens/YA books.

What do you hope to accomplish with your writing? (i.e….save the world, make people laugh, share knowledge, make a living, etc.)

Actually I want my grandchildren to look up to me after I am gone. I want to leave my stories for the world to read  and enjoy.

 What is your favorite part…(paragraph…page…line) from one of your books?

I love Sadie Squarette, the magical bug in my “Forbidden Wings, a Mermaid’s Story.  (Now published both as an e-book and a print book.) She, like me, will break into a rhyme at any time. Sadie is a figment of my imagination, never before seen in children’s books.

“Gnats swarmed around Nadeea’s eyes and ears. She pushed away newts and salamanders that crawled on the rock. A spotted red bug moved toward her. Just as she reached her hand out to knock it off the rock she heard a voice.

Hey, you there sitting down,
Don’t knock me around.
I mean no harm to do.
I can be of help to you.

Nadeea jerked her hand away, astonished at hearing a talking bug. “What are you?” she asked.

You ask what I be?
Not a bug don’t you see?
Sadie Squarette at your service, dear.
You’ll need me to get you out of here.”

 What have you learned from writing? 

That it is therapeutic for living a healthy, happy life. Writing is my way of life not just a hobby. I also learned that I CAN write my thoughts better than I can talk my thoughts.

 What are you working on now…or what is your next writing project?

I am finishing up another book to add to my mid-grade series I call Fables. (Fantasy based adventures.) ‘PIXIES OF THE FERNS; FERNELLA’S MAGIC’ will soon join ‘ELPANDA PAWS’, and ‘FORBIDDEN WINGS; A MERMAID’S STORY’ as published e-books. 

I also am editing and getting ready to publish my history-based books, HANK OF TWIN RIVERS, a series of a pioneer boy in the 1800’s and of his adventures on the Oregon Trail.

Please go to Margaret’s Amazon author page to learn more about her and to purchase her books. Fifty Odd wishes to thank Margaret Arvanitis for allowing me to feature her this week.

Over 50 Shades of Gray … Life After 50

Over 50 Shades of Gray…Life After 50

Platinum power

Over 50 Shades of Gray

I’m not talking about the popular, naughty book that’s a best-selling phenomenon. I’m talking about hair color. That’s a popular topic in my “over 50” set of friends and acquaintances.

To color or not to color. That is the question. What do we do with the shades of gray that are naturally and aggressively coloring our hair?

For me…presently although not so much in the past…it’s an easy answer. I don’t color. I used to color my hair, but I no longer do it.

It used to be that I was just “dying” to look younger. But I don’t care any more.

I love my “shades of gray”  hair. I love it for the convenience. No more worrying about covering roots that pop out two weeks after an expensive dye job. No more looking ratty because I’m too cheap to go to the beauty shop on a regular basis. No more plopping a blob of dye on my head and rubbing it in, my eyes burning while I wait for the color to set.

The truth is that I’ve been in various shades of gray since my late 30s. When I was 30 something I called it premature gray. But now that I’m over 50,  it’s not premature  any more.

It’s just gray. Or platinum or silver or Arctic blonde or ice…whatever you prefer to call it. I like to call it platinum.

 Over 50 Shades of Gray

There must be at least 50 shades of gray hair color lining the shelves of hair dye at Wal-Mart. Yes, some people do pay good money to have their hair colored the same shade that mine is naturally. It always makes me feel just a little smug when I pass those shelves and don’t put any products in my basket.

At least I have one thing to feel smug about! Some women even tell me that I’m brave to let my hair go natural.

At one time my hair was a pleasant natural ashy light brown. Then one strand at a time the color changed all by itself. And the grayer my hair grew, the curlier it grew. So now, instead of having straight brown hair, I have curly gray hair. Or platinum… or one of those other shades of gray.

Who knew that could happen? I didn’t.

There’s lots of advantages to going gray.

In my case…I no longer have to get a permanent to make my hair curl. I get senior discounts at the movies and discounts for McDonald’s coffee without even asking for them. I think it’s because of my hair color, but it could be because of all my wrinkles.

Young men open doors for me and Boy Scouts offer to help me cross the street. Small children bow when they see me.

OK…so I may be exaggerating the benefits of this “shades of gray” hair just a bit. But here’s the facts: I like my hair this way and I intend to keep it this color.

I’ve had my hair lots of shades of other colors. It’s been at least 50 shades of blonde, maybe 10 different shades of brown, a light shade of purple,  and one awful, awful, awful shade of red. (Maybe not so much red as a blinding maroon. Anyway, the maroon didn’t really work for me…in fact I had to call in sick to work…hack, hack, cough, cough… until the color faded a bit.)

This hair color is just right for my Life right now.

Trust me. It’s easier this way. And I’m all about being easy. Oh…you know what I mean!

Author Peggy Browning

Author Peggy Browning

Home For Sale By Owner…Life after 50

Home For Sale By Owner. I never thought I would put that sign in front of my house. But I did. I put it in my front yard yesterday, in fact.

 

It’s a red and white sign that says For Sale By Owner. I added the Home part.

If you’re interested…it’s 1400 sq. ft., 3 bedrooms, 1.5 baths, dining room, updated kitchen, central heat & air, hardwood floors, lot size 51 ft. x 150 ft. That’s the house part…you have to add the love that makes it a home. I’m taking mine with me.

“All I ever wanted was a little white house with a white picket fence with two little boys to play in the yard”….that’s a line from a long, depressing poem I wrote several years ago. You don’t want to read the rest of the poem…I promise you that!

Anyway, it’s always been important to me to have a home where my children could be. Where they could play safely in their own yard, where they could splash in mud puddles and play with the water hose, where they could sit in their sandbox and have an afternoon snack of Graham crackers and purple Kool-Aid, where they could play in the living room in the evening after supper and then have a warm bath and a bedtime story before being tucked into bed.

That was my dream…always. And parts of it came true. I have precious memories of riding dinosaurs and digging in the dirt with my kids in our own backyard, of snuggling in the rocking chair to read a story.

But now…everyone is grown up and gone. My house is too big. I ramble around in it, going from room to room with no true purpose…looking for things I’ve lost. And my backyard seems awfully empty even though I attempt to raise vegetables and flowers back there.

So now… it’s Home For Sale By Owner. And that’s OK.

Things have changed. Life has changed. I have changed. And it’s time to let go of this dream and follow another one.

One thing I have learned in Life is that homes are not made of brick and mortar, boards and shingles. They are made of love. And home is always where your heart is. My heart doesn’t reside here now.

It’s time for a family to move into this house and make it their home. It’s time for some other family to hang their heart here. The welcome mat is out…and I’m waiting for them to arrive so I can hand them the key to the front door.

So now the sign in my front yard says it all…Home For Sale By Owner. I hope the new owners will love this place as much as I did.

(By the way…it’s time for this Grandma to get an RV and travel her dreams, so don’t worry about me! I’m just taking my heart on the road and will hang it somewhere else. )

My Hero: Rep. Susan Brooks, Freshman Congresswoman

Rep. Susan Brooks (R-IN)

I have a new hero. Her name is Rep. Susan Brooks. She is a freshman Congresswoman in the U.S. House of Representatives. She is a Republican from Indiana.

 

I, on the other hand, am a Democrat from Texas. Yet, she represents me quite well in Congress. She represents the human interest rather than political interests.

What makes Rep. Susan Brooks so special in my eyes? She voted against party lines to approve the Violence Against Women Act. She voted FOR the VAWA in the interest of her constituents…the people she represents.

That vote may have cost Rep. Susan Brooks something regarding her own political interests. But she did it anyway. She did the right thing.

Watch the video of Rep. Susan Brook addressing the House of Representatives on this bill. I think you will be as impressed as I am. Click Here for Video

Although I am from Texas, Rep. Susan Brooks represents me far better than my own elected (although not by my vote) representative, Mac Thornberry, a Republican from Texas.

Thornberry voted along party lines, of course, and voted against the VAWA. He voted in favor of his own political interests and voted against funding for counseling, shelters, and prosecution of domestic violence. He voted against victims of domestic violence. Yeah…he did. He voted that Native American women on reservations, immigrant women, and gay/lesbian/transgender people should get no help for domestic violence. Not by government funded agencies anyway….

I will have to move from Texas to Indiana if I want to be represented by my representative.

Here’s the press release from Rep. Susan Brooks’s office about her vote. It recaps the vote far better than I can.

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Brooks Lauds Reauthorization of VAWA

Feb 28, 2013

Press Release

Takes to Floor in Support of Legislation

U.S. Congresswoman Susan W. Brooks (R-IN) took to the House Floor today urging members of Congress to reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). WATCH VIDEO.

“This bill is not a perfect bill. No bill that Congress passes is perfect,” Brooks said. “But I will tell you the victims being attacked can’t wait for perfect. The three women and the one man who die every day at hands of their intimate partners cannot wait for perfect.”

Following today’s floor debate, the House of Representatives reauthorized VAWA in a bi-partisan fashion by passing the Senate’s version of the bill. VAWA was also reauthorized in 2000 and 2005 and the last reauthorization expired in 2011.

“We as member(s) of Congress have the ability to give control back to the victims, to give control to the cops, to give control to the sexual assault nurses, to give control to the victim advocates, to give some to the shelters and the counselors,” Brooks explained. “I’m asking this Congress to show the American people that we care. I do. Please pass this bill.”  

VAWA was originally passed in 1994 as Title IV of the Violent Crime Control and Law Enforcement Act and provides grants supporting efforts to break the cycle of domestic violence in communities across the nation. VAWA funds assist first responder and sexual assault nurse training, domestic violence centers, victim advocates and counselors around the country.  

To watch video of the Congresswoman’s remarks, click here. 

For more on Congresswoman Susan W. Brooks, please visit www.SusanWBrooks.house.gov.